Do you know about the 5 love languages? I read this book years ago and it's always made a lot of sense to me.
The basic premise is that there are 5 love languages:
Words of Affirmation,
Acts of Service,
Everyone gives love and feels love in different ways, different languages.
Last weekend I had a bit of an epiphany about the love languages. I guess it was just a reminder of what I already knew but it was amazing to see it so clearly in action.
My man and I had had a great day together. Lots of laughs, working together, loving each other, feeling really connected.
Then over dinner we had a conversation that triggered a feeling for him that kept him quiet and withdrawn for the rest of the night.